Gossip is usually an unsavory but juicy hot commodity.
Particularly among certain people.
My grandmother reveled in the little nuggets of information she would glean from people, which is probably why she loved to go to the grocery store and beauty parlor when I was younger.
She could find out all kinds of dirt on just about anyone, down to what pew they sat on in church.
Granny was a great collector of dirt; and like her sole and sometimes-favorite grandchild, people just told her stuff. Unsolicited, out of the blue, random yet glorious stuff.
Some of this stuff was about people Granny didn’t know, which was rare. I think the old gal knew everyone in our little community.
But the best tidbits were about folks she did know – especially people she did not like.
Perhaps the most interesting thing about Granny’s ability to collect all this dirt is that while it came to her fairly easily, Granny was quite judicious with who she told what.
There was one exception, of course.
Granny’s best friend, LuRee.
What’s so funny is that for the longest, those two little mean women would scrapple and fuss with one another deep-fried Baptist style.
Then one day, a vortex in the Universe opened and I think Satan himself caught a chill.
The two of them walked out of their Sunday School room, arm and arm, hugging and slopping sugar on one another like they were best friends.
I remember seeing this as I stood in the hall just as plain as it was yesterday; they even moved in ‘80s style slow motion as they walked towards the double doors to go outside.
“When did you and Miss LuRee decide y’all liked one another?” I asked from the backseat on the way home.
“What?” my grandfather perked up at this news.
“We have always been friends,” Granny lied. Look at her lying right after leaving the house of the Lord.
“Little ‘un, scoot back in your seat; lightning is about to hit your grandmother,” my Pop said. “Woman, the two of you ain’t never been friends. I have seen y’all shoot evil looks at each other across the sanctuary before. What’s going on?”
Granny twisted in her seat as she drove. “We found out we both dislike the same person.”
Nothing brings two people together more than shared hate.
“Oh, good Lord,” my grandfather muttered under his breath. “Helen, what were you doing gossiping in church?”
“It was not gossip, Bob,” she said.
“Yes, it was.”
“No, it was not.”
“Then what do you call it?” he asked.
Well, for once, the old gal was speechless, which did not happen often.
She didn’t say a word the rest of the way home.
I, like my grandfather, thought that was a one-time event and they would end up back mortal enemies loathing one another over Amazing Grace and I’ll Fly Away, but the friendship stuck.
It was almost like two rival mafia bosses joining forces or something with these two. It was unnatural and scary.
Usually, it was a Sunday afternoon phone call that went on for at least an hour, Granny sprawled across the bed on her stomach, shoes off and feet in the air as she and LuRee discussed things.
My grandfather would just shake his head as he watched his football game.
“Your grandmother is in there gossiping,” he would say during a commercial break.
I nodded. It was just a fact.
“I am not,” Granny protested heatedly as she came down the hall. “I resent you saying that, Bob.”
“Well, I don’t know what else to call it.”
“We are talking about who to pray for,” she said.
“You heard me,” she said. He may not have; the man was deaf in one ear.
“We are talking about who to pray for.”
My grandfather rolled his eyes. “I’ll
“We were. We were talking about who we needed to pray for and the best way to know who to pray for, is to discuss their circumstances.” She paused and gave him a look. “I think we may need to pray for men who don’t believe their wives, too.”
He snorted. “I’ve heard it all now.”
From that day on, whenever the phone rang, and it was LuRee, Granny would proceed to hold their so-called prayer discussions.
This went on for several decades, and when Granny passed away, LuRee passed six months later.
“You suppose they are allowed in the same corners of Heaven?” I asked Mama the other day.
Mama laughed softly. “Those two are together, I know they are,” she said. “And they are still talking about who they need to pray for.”